Relationship & Intimacy Coaching
60 MINUTES $130 / 90 MINUTES $195 (See Tantra 101 Below)
Whether you’re in a relationship or not, becoming comfortable with your sexuality is an important part of your personal growth.
Using practical, experiential, body-based approaches to explore intimacy, we will work on themes to uncover the patterns which have occurred in your present and/or past relationships, identify your relationship to shame, connect with your vulnerability, develop your communication skills, and/or help you to achieve a profound and nourishing comfort with your sexuality.
You will get to know yourself and your way of relating to arousal, desire, and fantasy in an entirely new way; expanding your self knowledge so that you can move forward in relationship with wisdom and compassion.
This is not like regular sex-therapy which is talk based. Intimacy must be practiced for it to be most effective. After boundaries are clarified, we may consensually explore/heal your relationship to your body and desires using body-based and relational practices (clothing will always remain on). Through this process, you will integrate your otherwise cerebral breakthroughs into your limbic system so that you can bring this work into your life.
DO YOU WANT TO . . . .
Have GREAT sex — beyond what you think is possible.
Have Fabulous intimacy with your partner?
Create the ability for emotional, physical, and sexual intimacy with your current or future partner(s).
Reduce shame (including body shame), which limits your ability for full self-expression.
Develop an attitude of non-judgement.
Relate to your needs and the needs of others without fear of rejection or desire to please.
Heal old hurts and fulfill missing experiences.
Learn how to navigate disappointment and betrayal.
Develop polarity in relationship; align for stronger chemistry.
Discern between love and sex.
Identify what arouses you and what you want/need, so that core needs can be met.
Understand, learn and communicate your boundaries.
Give yourself permission to feel and experience emotions.
Overcome porn and sex addiction.
For women (primarily): developing a personal relationship with your sexuality, outside of internalized messages from family and culture (traditions, religion, and media).
For men: healing issues with performance anxiety, E.D.
Tantra 101
Enter the journey with an intro class to learn about tantra (Taoist tantra, neo-tantra), what it offers you, and learn some preliminary exercises.
Learn basic tantra techniques and practices to connect at a deeper level, strengthen your Qi, work with and master your sexual life force energy. These practices can be done alone or with a partner. This class is part teaching, part demo, part experiential. Fullest benefits come from continued at-home practice. (No nudity involved.)
Coaching Package for Men
4 sessions, 1 per week for a month (Can be repeated monthly)
Format: 1-Hour sessions on Zoom consisting of personalized coaching and tantric practices.
During the first part of each session we’ll explore your personal issues and what you’d like to learn. Some of these may involve relationship dynamics, partner connection, performance anxiety, erectile disfunction, self confidence in pleasing your partner, enhancing personal pleasure, deeper self-awareness, ways to deal with problem areas, self-love, bringing more harmony and balance to your life, boundaries, relationship and personal power issues, desire imbalances, self-management, co-dependency, obsession, attachment styles, and porn addiction as well as other things. We’ll also focus on how you can be a better lover and partner and understand your partner’s needs and desires better.
During the second part of each session we’ll focus on tantric practices that will help you in all areas mentioned above. These are guided and practical. They help create a new route in your sexuality and expand pleasure. These entail breathing, visualizing, working with life force energy and are clothes-on only practices.
Men who have done these practices regularly report having increased magnetism, greater polarity and chemistry, more intimacy with their partners, better connection to their sexual energy, more staying power, more sexual confidence and a greater sex appeal in general. They turn around from sexually lacking to creating sexual self-mastery.
The 4 session package can be repeated as many times as you like. The benefits of more sessions is to be able to go deeper, and see more long lasting changes.
Who this package is for:
-Men who want to be heard in a safe and non-judgemental environment. (I’m here to listen to you.)
-Men who want to reveal their unconscious boundaries and blocks that keep them from greater love and intimacy.
-Men who have performance anxiety.
-Men who desire increased stamina and staying power.
-Men who are interested in creating a healthy and loving path to their sexual energy through tantra practices.
-Men who want to unravel social conditioning and are ready to embody their authenticity and true masculine energy.
-Men who are willing to be open, vulnerable, and in touch with their emotions so as to move away from isolation and loneliness.
-Men who are not sure how to be with women and would like to tune-in to them far better.
-Men who want the inside track in understanding their partner and women in general..
-Men who wish to know themselves better, expand their self-understanding and work more actively with their sensual and sexual energy in a healthy way.
-Men who want to learn how to be better lovers and how to more effectively pleasure their partners.
-Men who want to build a better relationship with their partner, communicate more effectively, and develop a togetherness that is lasting and strong.
-Men who want to better understand the dynamics of their situation, find freedom or deeper commitment, seek a change and want better lives.
-Men who want greater stamina, health, vitality and life longevity including maintaining prostate health.
-Men who are interested in increased arousal, stronger erections, ejaculation control, prolong lovemaking, heighten pleasure, and multiple orgasms.
Who this package is not for:
-Men who don’t have respect for the feminine.
-Men who seek sexual novelty and\or short term entertainment.
-Men who are not willing to be honest with themselves and do the work.
-Men who waste time pushing boundaries during the session or want a sexual service.
-Men who are not coachable and can’t commit to the coaching process and exercises.
4 session package: $390 US/$520 CA